Hritik – Kangana case of one sided romance came as an eye opener to many in this current world of virtual connections… We all have in some way experienced this sometimes as a person in want of love or the person who is being stalked…
The world so lonely that we are in constant need of affection & attention immaterial of our position & status in the society…
Hence when the world which is now in our hands thru the virtual medium gives us an easy access to the people around us whom we look up to or in a way tend to get attracted & fall in love…
Always it may not be loneliness but shear attraction towards the opposite gender for its personality, aura & the way he/she represents itself in the society…
To feel for a person & expressing your emotions & feeling is completely justified after all we are humans having heart & mind… The person who is expressing should always remember the opposite person may or may not be interested in you…
There is a fine line between expressing & encroaching into other persons space which always has to be respected…
The person who is at the receiving end does not sometimes understand how to react in such situations… Ignoring they find is the best option, also believing not to hurt the person’s sentiments but this silence sometimes leads to other complications in the long run…
This silence can be treated as positive gesture & the person would keep on writing & get emotionally attached till there is a reply… Because our mind is trained for acknowledgement… we need to be acknowledged for our every gesture may it be positive or negative…
Hence it always advisable how much hard or difficult you may find, it is necessary to put across your message clearly towards the person who is expressing it’s feelings… It may be difficult for the person to digest your reply but it will definitely put a stop to further persuing…
Even after your clear indications, the person still continues to write or pursue than you may choose your other options…
Both the expressing & receiving persons should remember, give time to each other to react & respond… No actions should be taken hesitantly… No one is wrong at their end, how one handles these situations depends how clear you are in your communication…
The person who is expressing should know were to stop & draw the line, after clear indications one must stop persuing & channelize the energies into other activities for him/her to go away from these emotional outbursts…
Not always a person who is persuing you thru writings, messages or emails is suffering by any condition… It can be a normal person like you & me… The only difference is we know were to draw the line & were to stop…
This does not mean we start hating the person who rejects us or feelings are evaporated…
Simply we move on keeping these beautiful feelings packed in one corner of our heart… because your love should be unconditional & happiness should be in seeing the person you loved & expressed grows into his/her journey…
Possessiveness is not love nor simply having the person by your side… Sometimes emotional admiration from a distance is worth exploring… it is divine & peaceful…
Hopefully many such people who are stuck in these virtual admiration & want may set their soul free to breathe & live the life of self love…
Make these small episodes in your life as ‘An affair to remember’ mysterious, weird & crazy memories of love & affection…
Love is divine keep it simple & beautiful…
Thrumyeyes…